Do you know how to enjoy your own company and be truly alone?
In this episode, I chat with Rebekah Iliff about her new book “Champagne For One: A Celebration of Solitude”. Rebekah is a writer, author, and entrepreneur. Her work has appeared in Forbes, Business Insider, New York Times, HuffPost Comedy, Chicken Soup for the Soul: Be You, and countless other publications.
We talk about how you can enjoy solitude, how it positively impacts your mental health, and why you should ditch the shoulds and artificial timelines and enjoy your life today.
“We probably spend half of our lives alone on some level but I don’t think we do it very well.” – Rebekah Iliff
“Learning to live with ourselves is the most important way to be in relationships with others in a healthy way.” – Rebekah Iliff
“Solitude is kind of this proactive choice and a choice of self-love because we know that we need it and isolation is we’re either forced into it or we’re doing it because we can’t function. And so from a mental health standpoint, it’s always good to be checking in if we’re isolating or we’re choosing an act of self-love.” – Rebekah Iliff
What You Will Learn From This Episode
- Why learning how to love solitude is so important right now
- How we can let go of society’s artificial timeline on things like marriage and having kids
- On losing a friend and how to handle the grief
- How to date yourself or manage Valentine’s Day if you’re single or in a complicated relationship
- Isolation vs solitude – how solitude and doing things alone positively impacts our mental health
- How to have more fun today
About Rebekah Iliff:
Rebekah Iliff is a writer, author, and entrepreneur based in Nashville, Tennessee. Her work has appeared in Inc., Entrepreneur, Mashable, Forbes, Business Insider, New York Times, HuffPost Comedy, Comediva, Points in Case, Weekly Humorist, Slackjaw Humor, Erma Bombeck blog, The Satirist, Little Old Lady Comedy, Chicken Soup for the Soul: Be You, and countless other publications. Her book, Champagne for One: a Celebration of Solitude (Collective Book Studio/IPG), is now on pre-order and will be released in the U.S. on February 8, 2022.
Resource:
Resources include affiliate links which support the website and podcast.
- Pre-order Rebekah’s book “Champagne For One: A Celebration of Solitude”
- All About Love by bell hooks
- How the Universe Works on Amazon Prime
- Lead Me Home on Netflix
Connect with Rebekah
Connect with Melanie
- mentalhealthandwealth.com
- melanielockert.com
- Support the podcast through Ko-Fi
- Buy Melanie’s book “Dear Debt”
- Contact: mentalhealthandwealthshow@gmail.com
Want more content and support?
Sign up for the Mental Hump Newsletter and get our free Mental Health and Money inventory worksheet. You can sign up at MentalHealthandWealth.com.
Also, we host a Mental Health and Wealth Hangout every other Thursday over Zoom at 5 pm PT to chat about all things money and mental health. Join here!
Follow us on Apple Podcast or Libsyn!
Love the podcast? Leave a review on iTunes!
